17 People Reveal How They Knew They Weren’t Going To Marry The Person They Are With

Many people goes through the life of their not being sure if the person they are with are the right person for them, many only found out when it is too late. Although it may be hard to know whether or not the person you’re with is the one you should marry, but there are definitely obvious signs that they are absolutely not, signs that tells you that this relationship is not a healthy one and so you should break up with them immediately. A recent AskReddit asked users to reveal the moment they knew their partner just wasn’t The One. Here are 20 of the highlights.

1. The day my dad sat me down and said “I know you’re an adult. I don’t want to tell you how to live your life. But I think this girl is manipulative, controlling and insanely jealous.”

It was that night. I actually got pissed off at my dad and blew him off. Then I was sitting at home a few hours later and started thinking about examples my dad had brought up. And i had a moment like in The Usual Suspects when the detective realizes he’s been hornswoggled. – EthanAllenHawley

2.”When he offered to take my best friend’s virginity so she ‘wouldn’t have to worry about it.’ What a nice guy.” — twomangocats

3. “When they were fishing for an argument every day. I didn’t want to argue and I agreed with the complaint, I took it as an opportunity to improve myself and our relationship. All it did was piss him off.”- BRING-ME-CATAMITES

4. “She had set up a fake MySpace account posing as another girl and attempting to get me to cheat. We had been together for six months and were still in the ‘honeymoon’ phase. Sex all the time, no arguments, and you’re already pulling out the psycho shit? No thanks.” —WhatATravisT

5.  “I thought this guy really liked me and would act like an idiot to make me laugh, I like guys with a goofy sense of humor. Then I figured out he was actually just an idiot.” —marmiteNcrackers

6. “When I went to his house to watch a movie, and leaned against him because that’s what you do right? And I just couldn’t relax. It just felt wrong. He was a great guy but I just couldn’t be myself around him.” —Hoothootmotherf-cker

7. “She opened up to me about her relationship with her close friend. The friend was apparently a ghost.” —Dizzy-Cat

8. “It was all in one day when I realized. He picked me up from the doctor after I had surgery, and instead of taking me straight home he went to wash his car and made me stand outside. It was snowing.I passed out from the painkillers when we got back to the house. He stole 2 out of 10 pills they gave me, and snorted them on his desk while I was asleep. I found the residue and the card/straw he used. When I woke up, he tried to make me have sex with him. When I said no, he screamed at me for almost an hour. He said I was being selfish.”- CatsOnCocaine

9. “When she told me our lifestyles weren’t compatible because I didn’t want to be a Catholic and didn’t want to raise my kids Catholic. She was totally correct, in hindsight.”  -StudebakerHotch

10. “When I realized that most of my important stories were just a murmur in the background story of her own life.” -Iamthetophergopher

11. “When I found out she was sleeping with her “best friend” and a guy at work.She’d even told her “best friends” family they were dating. We were engaged. Hurt like hell, but hey, switching to saved me tons of money.”- Lyradex

12. “When I found out that when she was “at work and couldn’t call back,” she was really at her co-worker’s house, doing knows what. I hate myself for trusting her.” -darksoft125

13. “She brought her ex on a date, kissed him when he left, and still wanted to keep dating me.”- potatogodlives

14. “When I discovered that she had literally been prostituting herself out to random people on the internet to pay the bills…instead of, you know, asking me for help or quitting smoking weed for a month to get a real job.”- DetestPeople

15. “She had an irritating habit of sticking her finger in my ear, she thought it was hilarious. The moment she done it when I was trying to sleep made me realise I didn’t have the patience level required for a long term relationship with her.”- halfpintlightweight

16.I dated a girl for almost four years. After driving four hours to stay with her for the weekend I realized that she hadn’t been to a single family holiday since we started dating and that she had only visited me once at my place since I started college. There were plenty of other factors, but that particular realization on that drive made me realize that we had no future together. It was strange, like she was always on my mind until that moment, and then suddenly she was just some nagging responsibility in the back of my mind. Now I’m sitting here while my fiancé snores so fucking loudly. I can’t even imagine what I’d do without that shit every night. Love her so much.” —tredeeznuts

17. “He dropped this little gem, “We didn’t have an argument all day!” like it was a major accomplishment. Which, for our relationship, truly was.I couldn’t stop screaming in my head.” — Licensedpterodactyl

Did you went through a ? When did you realize that the person you were with is not the right one for you? Please share your story with us in the comment section.